He asked and she said yaaasssss!! Now that your bestie has a new rock on her finger, it’s time to shower her with celebratory gifts. We know there are a ton of options out there, but it’s ultimately up to you to decide which engagement gifts best reflect your BFF’s personality. To help make your decision a bit easier, we’ve narrowed the choices down to our four favorites for every modern day fiancé.


1. Clothing

The first must-have on our engagement gifts list is clothing (duh!). Every fiancé deserves to flaunt her new title for all to see and there’s no better way to do so than with a super cute shirt. Again, it’s up to you to decide on which style matches your BFF best, but here are our preferred picks:

grey v-neck that reads engaged af
Engaged AF, ninety5prints
pink t-shirt that reads future mrs.
Future Mrs., BrideBikini 
grey t-shirt that reads fiance
Fiancé , FreeSpiritInk
pink t-shirt that reads miss to mrs
Miss to Mrs., up2ournecksinfabric


2. Drinkware

After you’ve decided on a shirt, it’s time to move on to gift number two: drinkware. Whether your bestie is a coffee addict or wine lover, there are tons of options in this category to choose from. Many of these also include a groom gift as an added bonus! Here are a few of our favorites:

coffee mug that reads future mrs allen
Future Mrs. Mug, HappilyChicDesigns
coffee mug that reads does this ring make me look engaged
Engaged Mug, MarylandVinylDecals
stemless wine glass that reads this is my wedding planning glass
Wedding Planning Glass, RedLineDesignsShop
stemless wine glass that reads future mrs michel
Future Mrs. Glass, HappilyChicDesigns


3. Home Decor

Next on our engagement gifts list is something the future Mrs. can display in her home. From picture frames and signs to ornaments and wedding day countdowns, there is no shortage of decorations to choose from. Here are our top choices for each:

personalized photo frame
Engagement Picture Frame, fieldtrip
heart shaped map
Framed Map, PoppyandErie
personalized engagement ornament
Engagement Ornament, fieldtrip
wedding day countdown blocks
Wedding Day Countdown, FingersnThumbsCrafts


4. Wedding Planner

Now it’s time to give your bestie something to help with all of the planning she has to do for her big day. Weddings require a ton of organization nowadays, so your future Mrs. will really appreciate having a personalized guide to help her along the way. Here are our favorite finds:

floral wedding planner that reads forever and always
Forever and Always, PurpleTrail
white marble wedding planner that reads my wedding planner
My Wedding Planner, BlushAndGoldInvites
wedding planner that reads future mrs thomas
Future Mrs. Planner, PaperPeachShop
floral wedding planner that reads hailey jones
Customized Wedding Planner, PaperLuxStationery


If purchasing and packaging separate gifts isn’t your thing, consider going all in on a engagement gift set. The best part about these is that you can go a big or small as you like, depending on your bride-to-be and budget. Here are four options that range in size and price:

personalized engagement gift box with coffee mug and jewelry dish
Future Mrs. Set, HappilyChicDesigns
personalized engagement gift set with wine tumbler and wine split
Engagement Gift Box, SimpleSentimental
engagement gift box with wine glass, shirt and bracelet
Bride Gift Set, ArtandDecoShop
engagement gift box with shirt, coffee mug, jewelry dish and candle
Engagement Gift Basket, TheTinyOwlCo


P.S. It’s never too early to start thinking about bridal shower gifts! Check out our 6 unique ideas here.

Hi, I’m Megan-the voice behind Modern MOH! I was blessed enough to be the maid of honor for both of my besties, who just so happened to get married six months apart. It was my first time as a bridesmaid (let alone a MOH!) and I had no idea what I was doing, so I turned to BFF #3- the internet. It didn’t take me long to realize how little content had been written about being a maid of honor. This struck me as odd, not to mention unfair, considering there are a gazillion and one sites specifically for brides (WeddingWire, The Knot, Brides... just to name a few). So, long story short, I decided to take matters into my own hands and create Modern MOH. I’ve designed this blog to be a one-stop shop for all your maid of honor needs, including some real s#*! no one else will tell you. My goal is to help anyone struggling in their quest to find the answers to their questions, as well as the confidence it takes to be the GMOHOAT (greatest maid of honor of all time).

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